Traveling

When facing the endless assignment, i suddenly felt like have a travel. Perhaps, I am tired of doing the large loads of assignment. For me, travel is a tone of feeling, i love to travel alone. Travel is not necessary to go a far places or overseas, it can be a one day trip to a close places.

I love to travel alone because:

1. Freedom, i can go anywhere i want. I can travel on my own peak.
2. Get known to new friends.
3. Relearn of myself. I can have a better understand and get know to myself again in a strange place.
4. Look at the world by my own perspective without influenced by others.

Most of the time, travel is just an accuse for me to run into a strange place and forget about stress from my daily life for that moment. Slow down myself, I might have a different thought and view on the things I see. Sometimes, when I am in bad mood, have an walk in other city, enjoy the different scenario can tuned up my mood.

Travel also help me to discover that every people is living with their own style. Different values of people from different places makes the world looks complicated yet interesting. The different between people makes life much more wonderful. It creates resonance on the people who understand each other and also bring out topic for people who do not agree or understand each other. Meeting these people is something fun. Get in touch with the different from my daily life will lead me to love my life even more.

Right or Wrong

In this world, if there is really a guideline for right or wrong? Most of the time, we can't indicate that if it is right or wrong, it is just that we are having a different point of view. A “right” can be the true is just because most of the people chosen and agree with the particular perspective, it forces the one who have a different viewpoint become wrong. Usually, people judge others only with their own thought, they simply evaluate others without trying to understand other people. They presume to decide the true or false. Thus, in the most cases, there is not fair between right or wrong.

It is sarcasm that the powerful side is always the right one as they handled everything. They showed only their kindness and the right part of them to the people. It makes me thinks of war, history only record the justice part of the one who won the war. They are able to represent justice just because they are more powerful. After all, is that they are right for grab from the poor for food or even killing the innocent people? It is not. In the history, they just use beautiful words to cover up the evildoing they did. Or maybe they are right from their viewpoints.

What is right and what is wrong? It is actually very in-explicit between right or wrong. For me, we are always right for what we did, as long as we do not feel sorry for ourselves and others.

Ghost and Human

It is July in the Chinese calendar, everyone said that tried not to go out at night as ghost is scary. But, i think that human is actually much more scary than ghost. It is because human can be extremely devious and do anything just to achieve their own purpose. Spirit is said to be scary is because of the unknown of human being on the strange field. Spirit is said to be appeal at night is also due to the unexplainable fear of human being to the darkness.

Why do I feel that human being is much more scary than spirits? It is due to human can do anything just to achieve their own profit and avaricious. Most of the time, human do not satisfied with what they have, they will try to get what they want by hook or by crook. However, there are still popular feeling in spirit. People felt that spirits are terrifying because of their impure thought. For me, spirits actually delegate the pure and clean side of human. As long as we do not feel sorry for anyone and ourselves, we do not need to scare even the spirit knock out our door in the midnight. The knocking from the spirit is actually just a knock to wake us up from the darkness side in our heart.

Happy (幸福）

What is happiness? Most of us used to estimate if we are blessed following the index generally recognized by other. Sometimes, i will think that i am blessed if i get a good result in examination, praise from others or materialistic satisfied. However, after have a deep thinking, happy or blessed is actually not related to the index that is set by others. We are the creators of our own life. All the glorious and happiness is our own feeling, the theory of blessed from others is just a reference, it can never decide our blessed level.

No one can give other happiness, we must work for it, this is because we are the only one who understand our own feeling and thought well. This is just like every parents are trying to give their child their best. They give their child in the way they think it is the best, no matter if their child actually need it or understand what their parents actually do for them. The definition of happy is different for everyone. Sometimes, what my parents give make me suffer, but i am blessed due to the caring of my parents.

Happy can be very easy, but it can be difficult also. I think that happy is that we find out what we actually want and achieve it, but not following what other people want blindly. However, it is difficult for me.

Dreams and Reality

I believe that everyone have their dreams in this world, no matter it is a small dream or a huge dream. However, the distance between dreams and reality is always far apart from each other. Dreams are always wonderful but reality give despair. It is just like whenever you look into the night sky which is full of stars, you seem like you can touch the stars but they are actually a millions miles away from us.

On the way we chase our dreams, there are definitely people who jeer at us as they do not understand us. However, dream is named as dream because it is fantastic and different from the reality. it is just like the Wright brothers who dream of human can fly in the sky. People laugh at them and they think that it is impossible, but Wright brothers successfully invented the ever first aircraft. They use their action to prove that dreams can be turned into reality.

Everyone should have their own dreams, even the distance between your dreams and reality is just like the distance between a gulf of two cliffs. As long as we work hard and pay out our effort, build a bridge between the two cliffs,our dreams might become reality in one day. A man can carry up something which is heavier than themselves but cannot carry up themselves, but as long as we have a dream there and work it out, who know? We might be able to carry up ourselves and fly to anywhere we want!

Ice Fantasy(幻城)

Ice Fantasy (幻城) is a novel wrote by Guo Jingming (郭敬明) when he studying his high school. This novel recorded his dream. His dream is illusive but brought me a feeling that the dream is real.

I learned a lot in this novel, or maybe it is actually what the author trying to convey to us. The idea passed through the novel are the desire of looking forward for freedom and critical love. However, i felt the novel is real as it showed the character used the wrong method to express his love and we need to pay for freedom. Deep resignation is showed through out the novel. It is just like in our life, everyone is chasing what they want, even the aim is different, but everyone has the same persistence. Everyone willing to pay as much even everyone has different thought, yet everyone face the same sorrow.

From the novel, i also learned that sometimes we cant get what we want even we pay as much effort as we can. After all, dream is just a dream, reality is not a fairy tale, reality is always cruel for us. Thus, cherish. Cherish the one we love and the one who love. Bless. Do not forget the one who can dash ahead for us. At least, I am not the one who have nothing at all, I am not alone.

Beauty

Beauty, a boundary which everyone aspired. Generally, no one will refuse pretty, no matter in objects or hearts. For me, beauty are usually unnoticeable and hidden. The definition for beauty is special and it consist in everywhere.

Beauty not necessary point to fancy or bright colours, black and white can be attractive too. That is why black and white never been eliminate and shift out from the fashion. It is just like a flower, colourful flower is not always the aromatic flower but a white flower is.

In our daily life, it is almost impossible for us to be seized of perfect. The ideal we owned is not certifiably perfect as well. An accident or a scar can cause an object to be more artistry, it is just depend on our point of view. Same to our life, our life seem to be flawless because there is emotion and wounds. Wounds is the activator for us to grow up, it make us notice the existing of love as well. We can see that the one who loves us is always be with us when we hurt,especially our mother. The love from a mother can be said as the most pretty exist in this world ever. The love of a mother is unable to be replace by any other things that we owned or we do not have it.

In my opinion, beauty is just a state of mind, we can only feel it with our heart and must not be affected by any other element. Beauty is everywhere around us, it can be found in an article or a song too!