Happy (幸福）

What is happiness? Most of us used to estimate if we are blessed following the index generally recognized by other. Sometimes, i will think that i am blessed if i get a good result in examination, praise from others or materialistic satisfied. However, after have a deep thinking, happy or blessed is actually not related to the index that is set by others. We are the creators of our own life. All the glorious and happiness is our own feeling, the theory of blessed from others is just a reference, it can never decide our blessed level.

No one can give other happiness, we must work for it, this is because we are the only one who understand our own feeling and thought well. This is just like every parents are trying to give their child their best. They give their child in the way they think it is the best, no matter if their child actually need it or understand what their parents actually do for them. The definition of happy is different for everyone. Sometimes, what my parents give make me suffer, but i am blessed due to the caring of my parents.

Happy can be very easy, but it can be difficult also. I think that happy is that we find out what we actually want and achieve it, but not following what other people want blindly. However, it is difficult for me.